Volunteer Story: Stephanie
When Stephanie had an abortion herself, she felt lucky to have significant support behind her.
“Even though I had the money, friends, support, rides, and other resources, it was still the hardest thing I’ve ever done,” she says. Sitting in the clinic alone, she read about how many women seek abortions secretly because they lack that network of support. A flier on the wall sought volunteers to give patients rides to and from appointments. When she moved to Denver and bought her own car, Stephanie remembered the flier. “That’s when I found CDP. I was searching for an organization like the one I saw in the clinic that day. I wanted to give rides, but CDP turned out to offer so much more.”
Although she was nervous at first, it only took a couple rides before Stephanie felt like she was in the exactly right place. “After a ride, I called one of my friends in tears. I was just so happy to be able to connect with the client and be her support,” Stephanie says.
Every client who gets into Stephanie’s car has a different story. “Sometimes they really open up and need someone to listen. Other times they don’t want to talk, and I get to provide a peaceful, safe space for them,” she explains. “When a client falls asleep in my car after a procedure, it’s a relief to know they’re safe and supported, not trying to get home alone or in a rideshare.”
Stephanie remembers one particular client who lacked the support of her family. She recalled encouraging the client that she was doing the best thing for her, and the best thing for everyone because it was the best thing for her. “She told me I was the first person to tell her that,” Stephanie says.
Stephanie’s experience volunteering with CDP has made her feel more capable too. “I never thought I had the skills to support someone through something like this. CDP’s Abortion Doula Training taught me so much, and my experience volunteering has shown me I really am capable,” she reflects. “I can connect people with resources, check on them and be a listening ear.”
After a year volunteering with Colorado Doula Project, Stephanie feels more passionate than ever. Amidst an uncertain landscape she says, “I’m not going anywhere.”